Wednesday, 16 March 2016

I must mention here that in the previous nursing home



I must mention here that in the previous nursing home, where we were forbidden from taking my sister, there was a delivery case on the same date as my sister there was a delivaery case on the same date as my sister.The baby died and the mother was so critical that she had to be rushed to PGI (Hospital). This is when I understood why the nursing home had been changed and why Guruji had said there will be a death there.



Four years later Guruji again blessed my sister with a daughter. Each time the parents would go to guruji to ask him for a name, he would say I will keep it after thinking about it. This went on for about two months and one fine day Guruji called up my sister late at night and said, you are to name your daughter Pearl. Do not call her anything but pearl. Even diamonds have imperfections, but I thank Guruji for giving us these children as they have brought a tremendous amount of happiness into all our lives.

Monday, 14 March 2016

As told by Guruji much in advance, my sister was soon blessed

As told by Guruji much in advance, my sister was soon blessed with a beautiful healthy baby boy. During the first few months of my sister pregnancy her test results were not coming normal. One day he asked where are you showing her who is the doctor when we named the doctor he immediately said do not go there,there will be a death at her clinic.




Guruji instructed us to change the doctor and gave us the address of another lady doctor. As soon as we started going to the new doctor,all my sister test results came to normal. Guruji would often call her to the temple and blessed her and we got her admitted to the clinic.My sister  was in a bad shape. The mouth of the uterus would not open so the doctor finally took a call to wait another few hours before doing a caesarean.

Since Guruji had told us it would be a normal delivery, my mother and I rushed to him to seek his guidance. He told us that it will be a normal delivery and that there was nothing to worry. Just as we got back to the clinic, we saw the doctor taking my sister to the operation theatre. She told us that it is very strange but the uterus had opened and she is hopeful for a normal delivery.


On the 8th of February, my nephew was born. Guruji kept his name Rajdeep and told my mother Sukhi aunty I have given you a soul by choice. You can make his birth chart if you wish and you will be surprised to know what I have given you.

Sunday, 13 March 2016

3rd February was the date of the wedding and week before the weather



3rd February was the date of the wedding and week before the weather took a turn for the worse. The rain seemed as if it would never stop and we had the arrangements in the open at Mount View Chandigarh. It was too late to now go looking for a covered area to accommodate everyone. My mother panicked and rushed to meet Guruji. Guruji how will I accommodate so many people if the weather remains so bad.Do not worry.said Guruji It will be a warm and sunny day on the 3rd. Sure enough the rain finally stopped on the 2nd and on the 3rd it was indeed a beautifully warm and sunny day.



On the 3rd the boys side was to meet up with Guruji and his sangat at a particular point, before coming together for the wedding. One lady in the sangat lost her necklace during this trip and was very upset.

She did not want to tell her husband for fear of getting a shout so she decided to keep quiet till after the wedding. All through the wedding she did not tell anyone. After the wedding,Guruji  ordered his sangat who came with him from Jallandhar to follow him back to the temple. When this lady reached the temple she quietly sat down in one corner feeling miserable over the loss of her necklace. Guruji walked up to her and threw her necklace in her lap. Here aunty is this why you have been sulking all through the wedding.

Friday, 11 March 2016

During the Preparations of My Sister Wedding


During the preparations of my sister wedding Guruji would often help us with our shopping. He even told me before hand as to what I had planned to wear and on what function. My mother wanted to buy a coloured kundan tikka (A piece of jewellery worn on the forehead) matching to the set my sister was to wear on her wedding. We searched for it all over but none of the jewellers had a tikka in coloured kundan, as white kundan was now more in vogue.



Sukhi Aunty is your shopping complete.he asked my mother one day as we visited him. Guruji I can not find a coloured kundan tikka anywhere. I have been to all the old jewelers but none of them have it. What should I do.Mom was very worried as we did not have enough time to have one made especially to match her set. Go tomorrow to Patiala and you will find one. Said Guruji . My mother was not too hopeful since she had already visited all the jewelers there just a day before.

The next day my mother went again to Patiala and one of the old family jewelers came up to her and said we have found a few boxes of tikkas, lets open and see if there are any coloured ones in there.In the first box he opened we found a coloured kundan tikka matching exactly to me sisters set. Everyone in the shop was shocked to notice the similarity between the tikka and the set, as if they were made together by the same craftsman.  

Thursday, 10 March 2016

My Mother Had Asked for a Dress to be Made for Guruji and a Day Before



My mother had asked for a dress to be made for Guruji and a day before we were to go pick it up from the boutique, she took out the required money from the cupboard. She realized that a bundle of 50 rupee notes was all that was there in the cupboard that day.



As she was about to put it in her bag she saw that they were the most rotten and torn notes she had ever seen. She was a bit disappointed because having the notes changed from the bank the next morning, meant delay in meeting guruji.

The next day we told someone to rush to the bank to get the notes changed. Just as my sister handed him the notes he asked in confusion why do you want these notes herself.To her amazement, the notes were brand new.My mother felt there may have been a mistake as probably there was more than one bundle of notes in the cupboard. We checked the cupboard from top to bottom but could not find any more money. Still confused but in a lot of hurry we left for jallandhar to collect Guruji dress before going to meet Guruji.

Guruji dress and matching shoes were ready but the dress needed to be dry cleaned before we could present it to guruji.We decided to give the dress to Guruji on another visit, and went to his temple for his darshans. As we entered,he said Sukhi aunty,what have you got for me.Not wanting to give him the dress in a bad condition, we said Guruji we have not got anything. No you have had a dress made for me and matching shoes, bring them. We had no choice but to give him the dress as it was and Guruji very humbly and lovingly accepted it. For this dress I had to come last night to your house and change the bundle of money said Guruji.

Guruji so you changed the money asked my sister in surprise. Yes I had to or you would have been late.

Wednesday, 9 March 2016

Guruji Gets My Sister Married


My mother had been praying for years to god to come down and help her get her daughter married. She always wanted a son in law who did not drink and was of a religious bent of mind, just like her On meeting my mother for the first time, Guruji told her everything about the ardaas that she used to do to Guru Nanak ji regarding the marriage of her daughter.

 

Get your elder daughter married. Guruji told my mother one day. At first my mother just said yes and kept quiet. After a few days he again forcefully told her Sukhi aunty, tu roz swere uth kar rub nu kendi si meri beti da vyah karan waste thale utero hun main aaya hoya haan tat u sundi nai.

Sukhi aunty, you always prayed to god to come down and get your daughter married,now I am here to help you and you are not listening. My mother said Guruji but I do not know where to find a suitable match for her. That is not your problem. He said, the boy and his family will be coming tonight to the temple.

My sister marriage was fixed with the same boy we saw that day. He told my mother that Atley (my brother--‐in--‐law) was her son in her previous birth and that he will be the best choice for her son--‐in--‐law. We never questioned Guruji decision and my sister wedding date was fixed. The day he fixed the wedding he even told my mother that he had blessed her with a grandson.